The Kinkiest Things to Do in Japan
Japan is full of special places to go with your special someone or to meet a special someone (at least for that night). Tokyo by far has the most kinky spots to visit, but you’ll find some other areas in the country have some places that can get pretty kinky.
An interesting aspect of many clubs and bars in Japan is that many of them only serve Japanese people. Most places, you just have to go to the district that has the clubs and see if you can get in. Many places will check your passport, and if you can speak Japanese, they will let you in- so a huge piece of advice if you are looking to get into some kinky spots in Japan during your visit: learn Japanese before you go, or befriend a Japanese person who can take you places.
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Kinky Lingo in Japan
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Kinky Spots in Tokyo
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Osaka
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Kawasaki
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Fukuoka
Japanese establishments have found ways around some anti-prostitution laws, and we’ve got a guide for you so when you are in town, you will know what to look for.
Soaplands
Soaplands (aka brothels) are operated in a legal gray area, so you have to be careful when visiting them. Many of them will not allow entrance to foreigners.
Happening Bars and Couple Kissas
Happening bars and couple kissas are more or less swingers clubs, happening bars are for men, women and couples, while couple kissas are only for couples. For happening bars, you’ll find two different kinds: waiwai (wet) and shitori (dry) - waiwai’s are more informal and have less rules than shitoris.
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Shinjuku Ni-chome
Tokyo’s (and Asia’s) largest LGBTQ+ district has bars, clubs, and events celebrating diversity. Located near Shinjuku Station, there are over 300 gay bars and nightclubs, many of which can only hold 10-15 people for a super intimate experience. In the 1960s and 70s, it became a safe space for the LGBTQ+ community. Gay dance clubs like Arty Farty and Kingdom- a fetish gay bar. Kinky bar Markiss promises “a stimulating space for consenting adults.” Many bars in the area feature drag shows, theme nights and other entertainment.
Akihabara
Akihabara features stores specializing in anime, manga, and adult-themed products. While anime and manga may dominate here, there are several sex shops for perusing the kinkier side of things. Try M's Pop Life Adult Department Store for sexy toys, clothes and gear. Maidreamin Cafe is a maid-themed cafe that offers sexy dances and more - and has several locations throughout Tokyo.
Kabukicho
Kabukicho is the largest red-light district in Tokyo, and features some of the kinkiest spots in the city. You’ll find several Love Hotels (hotels typically used for short 1-3 hour stays, although guests can stay overnight). Popular love hotels in the area include Love Hotel Perrier, with soundproof rooms and private spa tubs, and Hotel An ShinJuku Kabukicho, with soundproof rooms, blackout curtains, and a sauna.
Visit a Show Club
Head to a club like Tantra Tokyo for a burlesque and modern geisha shows. More like a gentleman’s club, Tantra Tokyo does welcome couples, and you can have a showgirl come to your table to entertain inbetween (or after) shows. Rokusan Angel is another burlesque club in Tokyo with more risque dances for audiences. Some BDSM and Fetish clubs include Black Rose, and TK Society. Department H is a monthly fetish show held at Kinema Club the first Saturday each month.
Visit a Happening Bar or a Couple Kissa
Arabesque is somewhere between waiwai and shitori, it’s formal but also allows for some relaxation. You do need to know some Japanese to get in, and they will check your passport. Voluptuous is more lenient and you will not need to know Japanese to get in; however, it is members only so you will have to join if you want to go.
Bars and Strip Clubs
In Osaka, you can enjoy nude dancing and lap dances at Juso Music, and DH-Tohji will satisfy with topless dances and individual services (for a price), which can get pretty raunchy if you desire (and have the money). Head to Jail - a BDSM Fetish club featuring a BDSM show. Their other location in Osaka is a dungeon/torture themed bar. Jail also has a venue in Nagoya (fetish bar).
Tobita-Shinchi
An old red-light district in Osaka, Tobita-Shinchi, is lined with “restaurants” with women who are available for services. As you walk the streets, you will see women available for services. “Pink Salons” are in abundance and will fulfill any fantasies you may have while in Japan.
Kanamara Penis Festival
Every spring, Kanamara celebrates mens (and womens) anatomy during the Penis Festival. You’ll find illustrations, penis-shaped candy, and enjoy a mikoshi (portable shrine) parade all to celebrate this body part.
Nakasu
Nakasu is the redlight district in Fukuoka and features storefront sex establishments. The Minami Shinchi area is particularly well known for its soaplands.
Online Community for Kink in Japan
As you’re preparing for your trip to Japan, one of your best bets to get into kinkier spots is to connect with people online beforehand. Try apps like FetLife where you can meet like-minded folks and find out where to go and what festivals may be happening during your stay. You may also meet someone who will help you get into the spots that only allow natives.